About Patrick Palmer: Caregiving & Cancer Research Advocate

Get to Know Pat

Cancer Research Advocate.

Who is patrick palmer?

Hi! I am Pat, and I am now a full-time writer and cancer research advocate. This is how my life completely shifted toward writing for caregivers and supporting cancer research.

The moment the neurosurgeon told us that my wife had been diagnosed with Stage IV brain cancer, my world came crashing down. It was September 2011, and the prognosis was that she had six to twelve months to live. We had maybe one more year together? It was the most horrific news that I had ever been given. How was I going to care for her and who was going to show me the way? I had to learn how to be a caregiver on my own.

My partner, wife, and best friend died on February 15, 2016 from glioblastoma multiforme. She was 68 years old. She had lived for fifty-three months after that day in the doctor’s office. For those four and a half years, I dedicated myself to providing Angela with the most loving and committed care possible.

Angela’s legacy lives on through my involvement in the caregiving community, through my involvement in raising funds for cancer research, and through each word in each sentence of every book I write.

The Books

A Husband's Guide

A detailed account of what Pat went through as a caregiver for his wife after her cancer diagnosis written to help husbands - and men in other roles - who become caregivers and how they can overcome the challenges they might face.

Healing of a Caregiver

A sequel to his first book written 2 years after Pat's wife passed away. It revolves around the circumstances and challenges he faced as a widower, which he put into words so caregivers - men and women alike - could better understand the process of grieving and move on.

Are You Prepared?

An in-depth exploration of what it means to be a caregiver for a loved one who suddenly becomes disabled or is diagnosed with a terminal disease. It helps the reader assess themselves and be well-prepared for the possibility of becoming a caregiver.

Hear What The Readers Say

Patrick Palmer has created an incredible book for all those who care for aloved one at home, especially make caregivers. Little or no resources have been available to guide these dedicated and loving supporters until now. This book describes ten critical segments of caregiving, all learned while on the job. This is a must-read for those who are caregiving now or many be in the near future

Phyllis Levine, LICSW

Some gus may be hesitant to ask for help. Men, the ‘fixers’ in life, all too often feel that they can handle anything. Their egos can also prevent them from reaching out for help, like asking for directions. I was the same way.but there comes a time when you recognize your own frailty. There are many times when you can handle everything, but not when you are caregiving. Your emothins get in the way, and you realize that you can’t fix everything all the time. It’s hard to face that reality.

A Husband’s Guide to Hands-On Garegiving

This loverly book is for anyone who has been a caregiver. Pat palmer offers sound advice from his experience and his soul. On how to heal and move forward once that role has ended. His astute and attainable suggestions will offer you a road to the next stepss in life. While honoring and treasuring the loved one you have cared for.

Nancy Tharler, LICSWDana - Farber Cancer Institure Boston, MA

Patrick palmer tells all, tells it as it is, and maps a way forward for those who unfortunately need to explore and experience caregiving for loved one. Carefully crafted, detailed and enriched with personal information. A valuable resource for those searching for a guide.

Patricia MonaghanRB (Retired) & Former Caregiver

This book contains true life situations and gives you a lot of information when caregiving could become a part of you life. Highly recommended.

Mary RaesideRB (Retired) & Former Caregiver

A very nice read and easy guidelines for caregivers to consider!

Lynn O’Connor, RN (Retired)

This well written book is an easy read offering practical advice for the unexpected events that life inevitably throws at you. I recommand it as the first tool in in your planning kit

Marilyn AnkenmannRB (Retired) & Former Caregiver

Being well written and actionable, this comprehensive guide will enable you to take charge of your lives during challenging times.

Mary Bialer, Founder Of Snug At Home INC